Sunday, May 23, 2021

anniversary...weekend!

Bryan and I got away for a full weekend to celebrate our 18th anniversary.  The last time we were away from the kids for two nights was in 2017 when we went to San Francisco.  This time we only road-tripped a couple hours away. But it was a very enjoyable getaway.  

We stayed at a little resort tucked away on a little lake.  It markets itself as a wedding venue but fortunately there wasn't a wedding while we were there.  It was very quiet with only a few other guests around.  Our room looked right out on the lake.  I loved watching the fog dissolve with the morning sun, the sunsets, and a cormorant doing some fishing.  We heard a loon but didn't see it.  We did some scenic driving, hiking, touristy shopping, and sampling at a couple local breweries.  All things I love except the breweries, which were because Bryan was with me. 😉  I did enjoy sitting outside lakeside and eating food I didn't cook!







Also, the good company.  I hit the jackpot on that one! 💗

mother's day

 It was a very special Mother's Day because we got to spend it with my mom (and dad)!  


We hadn't seen them since the 4th of July.  They brought their RV and stayed a few days.  It was great to have them tag along to all of our activities.

Grandpa helped Reggie warm up his pitching arm, and schooled Lydia and Reggie in chess - even when they teamed up against him!


It was perfect weather for doing some "tailgating" before Reggie's game - see my instant pot?  We had chili!


Here is a cute story about my parents' dogs.  This is their 3rd Shih Tzu.  The first one was named Shelbe, and we got her when I was in middle school.  At the time, my oldest nephews were toddlers and couldn't say my parents' last name, so they called them "Grandma and Grandpa Shelbe".  Well, the name stuck, and the tradition continued.  But by the time I had kids (grandkids #9, #11, and #12), Shelbe had died and her predecessor was Sitka.  "Grandma and Grandpa Shelbe" didn't make any sense to them, so they call my parents "Grandma and Grandpa Sitka"!  Well, Sitka died about a year and a half ago, and now they have Gracie.  But my kids are sticking with G'ma and G'pa Sitka.  Now, my parents have three little GREAT grandbabies.  I wonder if they will call them Grandma and Grandpa Gracie!?

Tuesday, May 4, 2021

Frozen 5k

The kids ran in a 5k fundraiser for Special Olympics with our friend Bonnie.  They started training at the beginning in February and it took more work than they expected!  To help keep them motivated, Bryan and I donated $5 for every two mile run and $10 for every three mile run, up to $100 each.

Brett made a banner for the occasion. The night before the event, the kids thought we should carb-load, so I made million dollar mac-n-cheese.

In the morning, Bonnie came by to watch the opening events (virtual) and we unveiled the grand total raised - $1,463! That's for six of us, because Bryan and I entered and walked the 5k. But the kids raised most of the money!




It turned out to be a beautiful middle of April morning in Minnesota.  We were not quite frozen - it was 34 degrees!


We went in pairs.  Reggie and Lydia finished in 32 minutes, Brett and Bonnie finished in 42 minutes, and Bryan and I walked it in 48 minutes!  After the 5k, we stopped at Kwik Trip for breakfast - that was Brett's favorite part.


Thursday, April 22, 2021

risk budget

The Monday after Easter, Brett returned to in-person learning after five months of distance learning.  When the school year started, his school offered a hybrid learning plan where students were divided in half and each group attended two half-days a week.  This time around, the restrictions have lessened.  Everyone who wants to attend in-person has a full Monday-Thursday schedule.  Fridays are independent learning, allowing teachers more time for lesson preparations and connecting with students who have elected to remain distance learners.  He is so happy to be back in-person!

I continue to homeschool Brett in the subjects of math and language arts.  If he was at a traditional middle school, there would be remedial offerings in these subjects.  But because his school is very small, they don't have such offerings.  The teachers and case manager are willing to make accommodations for Brett, but won't offer him different curriculum.  He has made friends, fits in, and likes it there, so we are staying put for now!  In our new schedule, we do homeschool as soon as Reggie goes to school in the morning.  We have a little over an hour and then he goes to the charter school for about 4 hours.  Then on Fridays we have more time to finish up what needs to be done for the week.  


Lydia's school also returned to in-person learning this spring. At first it was two groups each going two days a week, and now everyone who wants to can attend four days a week.  Lydia wanted to stay in distance learning and you can't argue with a kid who's getting straight A's.  School keeps her engaged 7:45-11:45 and then we have time for other stuff. I'm enjoying the time I have with her!

For the last year, Bryan and I have talked a lot about our "risk budget".  We think about the amount of risk we are willing to take as a family related to Covid exposure as a certain total amount.  Some things take precedence, like Bryan going to work.  The size of our budget is dependent upon how much Covid is currently spreading in our area. And the cost of a particular activity will depend on risk factors such as indoor vs. outdoor, size of gathering, etc.  We are willing to spend more on certain things even if it takes a lot from our budget, for example, having Reggie play some sports.  Other things are simply too costly, like the potential for unintentionally exposing our parents.  I am very happy that Bryan and I have basically been in agreement!

The risk budget constantly has new or changing variables.  One positive change is that now we have easy access to Covid testing.  While it was hard to get a test in the fall, now we can walk in without an appointment, do a spit test, get results within 24 hours, and at no cost to us. So that has become a part of our regular routine.  Secondly, Bryan and I have both started the vaccine process.  We haven't quite figured out how this will change what we do, since we will still have three unvaccinated kids in our household.  Pretty much all of our activities revolve around them!  I hope Lydia and Brett will be able to get vaccinated early in the summer, but expect Reggie won't be through the vaccine process until fall (because he turns twelve in August). 

Speaking of vaccines, I will never look at a Target dressing room in the same way again.  That's where I got vaccinated!  Bryan got vaccinated at a large event center where we have done things like go to hockey games.

But the news hasn't all been good.  Cases in our area took an upturn in March, with a lot of UK variant transmission. Soon, we were getting notices from our schools and hearing from friends who had gotten sick.  At least 29 cases have been linked to a youth wrestling tournament that we would normally attend.  We didn't go this year because they moved it across the state border to avoid Covid restrictions.

 A couple weeks ago, Bryan's friend from work notified him he tested positive.  There had been a couple other recent cases in his office.  So when word came that his friend was in the hospital, the office sent everyone home for at least two weeks.  At the time of this writing, Bryan's coworker is on a ventilator. 

Spring sports are in the works.  It looks like Reggie will have one more season in Little League and practices started last week.  Brett and Lydia were really hoping to do track through Special Olympics but ultimately the season got cancelled due to being unable to comply with all the safety requirements set in place this year.  Instead, they will try a nearby city's track team.  The program was really short on coaches, so Bryan volunteered.  It appears as though, if things go according to plan, May-July are booked with sports.

Back to life as we knew it?